If a woman asks you to GET ON 4, it’s because she’s no longer begging you to stand up as a man.”
She’s done waiting for the respect, the presence, the accountability you promised but never delivered.
She’s not playing soft anymore.
Not because she doesn’t love — but because she’s learned to love herself more.
You missed the signs when she was still dropping hints.
You brushed off the silence that was screaming louder than words.
You thought her strength meant she’d never leave —
Now that same strength is walking away.
When she says “GET ON 4,”
She’s not asking. She’s commanding.
Because pleading for partnership is no longer part of her script.
Because if you won’t rise, you’ll kneel —
And not out of love, but consequence.
Let it sink in:
She’s not being cruel.
She’s reclaiming her power.